When a mother sees her baby from
the first time there is only one thought in her mind and that is to keep her
baby happy and for rest of her life she takes up all kinds of avatar. Every
mother has the capability to become teachers, guides, leaders, protectors and
providers for their children. There some mothers who go one step forward and
become buddy of their children and I feel that is perfect parenting package.
Yes,
you heard me right paring comes as package because molding a child into better
person contains includes variety of things. The most important thing every
parent should remember is that “Children
learn more from what you are that what you teach”.
When
parents adopts buddy parenting then they come one step closer to their children
and it helps when kid grows into teenager. A parent can pass on their values to
their kids very effectively. Many parents complain that their kids don’t listen
to them or do not share anything with them. The answer to all these kind of
issues is “Buddy Parenting”.
Share
something about your friends and your past school and college days with your
kids openly and see how quickly they will open up to you. Approach your kids
with a problem which they can solve better than you and then your kids will
come to you in case they have any kind of issues. Play with your kids to
develop sporty spirit in their mind. It always works if you share study time
with your kid and motivate them or relax them during exams. Most important
thing is let them make their own decision and guide them as friend if they are
wrong and always remember just because you gave them birth you don’t own them.
I
can say proudly that my Mom and Dad were my buddies in all stages of my life
and now also after my wedding I call my Mother every single day and we are like
best friends. Buddy parenting not only helps parents to connect with their kids
but also it helps kids to get closer to their parents.
I
can share anything with my parents as friend and that stopped me wrong going on
wrong path. I always discuss with my parents before taking any decision and it
builds my confidence. I learned a lot from them. They never gave me any kind of
pressure and hence I turned out so well.
By this post I want to thank my
buddies(Parents) for all their Love :D
Thanks to kellogg's chocos for making me remember my "kushi ke pal" and also for giving me "khulijaye Buchpan" feeling.
P.S. If you want to experience "khulijaye Buchpan" feeling then visit Kellogg's Chocos.
Enjoy beautiful video of buddy parenting.
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